Question: Is it ever okay to forget about the problematic issues of the world and just have fun? Is it ever possible?

I guess that depends on who you ask. For me personally, as a queer woman of color I tend to believe that it's not really possible for me to just forget about what's going on in the world, and put social issues on hold in favor of carefree fun. Then again, I'd like to think that social change and fun aren't mutually exclusive, that we can have a good time, smile and laugh, even while staying aware of serious issues around us.

One reason I'm thinking about this is that I've been tuning into some of the recent reactions to Beyoncé Knowles' new single, "Run the World (Girls)." If you haven't heard, it's the popular song with the chorus that asks, "Who run the world?" and answers, "Girls!"

Beyoncé's apparently impressive Billboard Awards performance has some praising the singer and her message of girl power. Others, however, are taking a minute to stop and consider the lyrics -- do girls really run the world? And what does it mean for a popular song to set out and declare it so?

Some of the arguments against this criticism have been heard many times before in response to critiques of popular culture, as some loyal Beyoncé supporters say that it's "just a song," which shouldn't be taken so seriously. So here rises the dilemma -- do we just let popular music be, for the sake of having fun, letting girls escape into the catchy song in which they rule the world? Or do we say "hold up," and take a minute to think about what's going on and the effect that inaccurate popular messaging can have on our world? After all, anyone who listens to this song and believes its lyrics might think, "Huh. Glad that whole gender inequality issue is fixed now, guess I don't have to do anything about it."

But that seems silly, of course, and some might argue that nobody who listens to this music would actually think that way, that even such popular music would never impact our world like that. But think about the dangers of a society that hears these words and sings along blissfully, without even considering their implications. Think of what it means, that it's possible for us to suspend the reality of our truths about who's hurting. And think of how different our world might be if our popular music was truly empowering.

I admit that I'm not a Beyoncé fan, and perhaps part of why I'm intrigued by this criticism is that I'm happy to see somebody else is questioning our society's love of her incessantly catchy tunes. And I admit, also, that I have my moments of letting go and having fun -- there was no profound message to be found in the story I shared on Harvey Milk Day, for example, except perhaps the thinly veiled idea that anyone who's uptight and judgmental should maybe try relaxing and having a little fun themselves. But when our aim to have fun deliberately misleads us and others into believing that social problems don't exist, we run the risk of enclosing ourselves in a bubble of ignorance, forgetting about those who are suffering, and allowing them to continue to suffer just so we can be comfortable.

So here's a reminder, in case you need it, that many of the girls of the world are oppressed and hurting, in spite of Beyoncé's words. Maybe we can find a more empowering, truthful jam for girls to rock out to.
 


Comments

05/24/2011 5:52pm

I'm a huge Beyonce fan and most of the time, I never know what she's truly singing about, but the music is so enrapturing that I love it despite its true meaning. I am also a great believer that performing one's service to the world can be intertwined with pleasure for the sake of pleasure. But, that's just me.

I think that music has "the power to empower", and that words are not lost in the beat. I think of it as a a planted seed; a theme that invades the mind, sinks in, and begins its work.

Try this: we can SAY what we hope will be someday, but, those are mere words. We demonstrate, we protest, we write, we . . . whatever it is that we do when we want to help change the world. Eventually (let's hope) those small beginnings lead to a victorious end, someday. But, they start out as "just words".

There are those who, as you say, think "Huh. Glad that whole gender inequality issue is fixed now, guess I don't have to do anything about it." But I believe that they are few and far between. It is my hope that those who really want to make a change know better and and will continue in their own way to spread the word, despite those who have their heads buried in the sand.

Take it from an old vet who's done much battle on the social front - take a break and don't even feel the least bit guilty about it (no matter how long your break may be, the soul will return in full force, ready to do battle). Peace.

Reply
05/24/2011 5:56pm

Sorry, wrong link for my site. Correct one here. Peace.

Reply
05/25/2011 8:08am

Thanks for your thoughts! I guess I agree with you that those who really want to make change will push on regardless, but my hope is that someday, the number of those who really care will be as large as the number of Beyonce fans, so there will be more demand for popular songs with conscious lyrics.

But maybe that's just silly. Am I just being silly?

And thanks for hte reminder to take a break! :-)

Here's an interesting take on it: http://nunezdaughter.wordpress.com/2011/05/24/whereby-beyonce-breaks-the-internet-and-kismet-drinks-some-of-the-koolaid/

Reply
05/25/2011 8:30am

Ooh, more interesting: http://feministing.com/2011/05/24/behind-every-strong-man-there-is-an-even-stronger-beyonce/

Reply
05/25/2011 3:46pm

Thx for the links. Haven't read the 2nd in total, but, it is interesting. Will finish by tmo.

I have to say that my extreme conspiracy theory ideals and buck-the-government notions have taken a back seat to politics these days. I confess that it is my age and the lack of fight left within me.

The 2nd links speaks to the very argument that I usually get with my distaste for Tyler Perry's "art" (I offer up MEET THE BROWNS). Folks tell me that, as an artist, he has no obligation to be "tasteful", nor any obligation to show people of color in a good light. To that, I have said that y being so irresponsible, he has taken us back into the dark ages with his shucking-and-jiving shows and movies.

Conversely, my 1st thought was to say that Beyonce, by the same token, is about making music and not about being "positive" nor has any obligation to be so. But, wisdom tells me not to be so hypocritical, as I know better.

Therefore, I readily see the point being made by so many that she should be so much less commercial and make a real statement (via conscious lyrics), if she has one to make, particularly with such a huge following of such a young and impressionable and audience.

I like your statement " . . . the number of those who really care will be as large as the number of Beyonce fans, so there will be more demand for popular songs with conscious lyrics . . .".

My fight is long gone, but my support lives on. Therefore, when I come across a cause that is worthy, I will continue to do what I can to help, albeit without my normally "attached-to-the-hip" soapbox. Peace.

My website link, somehow, kept adding two dots in the name - fixed.

Lastly, are you a star yet? I mean, do you feel really comfortable on stage now when reading your work? I know it may not yet seem like those infamous 15 minutes of fame, but, enjoy. L8trs.

Reply
05/26/2011 5:58am

Yeah, I always feel that that "obligation" issue is debatable. Sure, if I built that much success as an artist, nobody else has the right to tell me how to go about expressing myself or continuing my career, so if I choose not to speak to a certain truth, that's up to me. Still, I'd definitely feel a responsibility to be aware of my influence, and if not set out to make change, then at least do everything I can to avoid contributing to the oppressive systems in place. I think it's selfish of an artist to continue the "it's all about me" attitude once they've reached the point where they clearly affect lives other than their own.


"are you a star yet?" Haha, that question makes me laugh. I don't know about being a star, but at some point I definitely went from anxiously wondering if I belonged at each reading, to now taking my place at the mic without thinking twice about it. Not to say that I don't still get nervous, but somehow I feel now that it's completely natural for me to be up there.

I have no idea when this happened, and it's funny to realize that it all gradually changed without me noticing. Thanks for following along with my journey! Stay tuned! :-)

Reply
05/30/2011 9:04pm

Loving the subject of this blog, Maisha! Figuring out how to live life in this world and walk with social justice? Shake your booty at the club and organizing at the same time? Does it ever contradict? Shoot....

Looking forward to following along.

Reply
05/31/2011 12:28pm

Thanks, Kismet!

Reply



Leave a Reply